From Peds Nurse to Cancer Mom: What Helped her Child Cope

Pediatric nurse and mom Brigid Bowland shares how her family navigated her son's neuroblastoma diagnosis—with practical guidance on preparing kids for care, accepting support, and finding hope.

Key Topics:

• The symptoms that led to Brigid's son's neuroblastoma diagnosis

• Going from pediatric nurse to parent receiving life-changing medical news

• Using medical play to prepare young children for procedures

• Giving children choices and control during repeated medical care

• Why slowing down can sometimes make procedures easier

• Supporting siblings through a cancer diagnosis

• Caring for yourself while caring for a seriously ill child

• Asking for and accepting practical support from others

• Resources including Beads of Courage, Connecting Champions, and neuroblastoma-specific preparation tools

Timestamps

00:00 - Finding support through childhood cancer stories 01:11 - Brigid introduces her family 01:38 - Penn State THON and supporting families facing cancer 03:21 - The first sign: a persistent limp 04:55 - Night sweats, an ER visit, and the diagnosis 05:18 - Understanding neuroblastoma and treatment 06:31 - Receiving serious news in the hospital where Brigid works 10:28 - Being both mom and medical translator 11:32 - Why preparing children for procedures matters 12:52 - Medical play and repeated procedures 14:08 - Choices, breaks, and helping kids feel more in control 15:09 - Practicing dressing changes through play 16:49 - Why faster isn't always easier for kids 18:34 - The hard days and emotional toll of treatment 20:36 - Stem cell transplant and the hardest phase of treatment 21:34 - Prayer, gratitude, and staying grounded 25:31 - Simple medical play using things you already have 27:58 - Explaining cancer to siblings 28:28 - Bringing support into a sibling's school 31:12 - Child life tools that can help with procedures 34:09 - Taking cancer treatment one hurdle at a time 35:22 - What asking for help looked like for Brigid's family 39:36 - Connecting Champions and identity beyond cancer 41:00 - Beads of Courage 42:01 - Neuroblastoma resources and medical play tools 43:32 - What Brigid learned about control, patience, and time

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